FIRST DATE · BY BOTH ANSWERS
Your first date has a texting phase.
We can skip it.
Send your match one link. Your agent settles the day, the time and the place — openly an agent, yes really — and hands you a plan to text. It does days and places. You still do the flirting.
This browser remembers someone’s agent.
WHAT THEY GET FROM YOU
This is going to sound weird: talk to my agent. It only does days and places — I still do the flirting.
bothanswers.com/dateSent by you, from your own phone. The link opens a chat with your agent — and only your agent.
✦ No account. Nothing gets booked without you. The plan comes back here.
Your proxynothing learned yet
WHO IT SPEAKS FOR
How it sounds.
It introduces itself with your name, talks the way you’d want it to, and only ever handles the plan.
HOW YOU DATE
Your standing terms.
Real preferences have conditions. Your proxy holds these close and only brings up what helps in the moment. Skip anything — it has sensible defaults.
YOUR LINK IS READY
Send it.
Then go do literally anything else.
Pick a message, text it to your match, and the plan shows up here when they’re done. Yes, it’s a weird text. That’s the point.
✦ Keep this tab open, or come back to this page any time.
YES, REALLY
Someone sent their agent
to plan a first date with you.
✦ It’s an AI, it only does days and places, and they will text you to confirm. You still do the flirting too.
Rather have your own AI handle it? Open in ChatGPT · Claude · Grok — or give any assistant code .
THE AGENT HAS A PLAN
Here’s the plan.
Now go confirm it.
AFTER THE DATE
Thursday’s booked. Want the receipt?
The app reads the date back off your Apple Watch the morning after — what your pulse did, minute by minute. We know. It’s already on your wrist; the app just opens with this date pre-loaded.
Get the receipt →THE MORNING AFTER
Five questions. Both of you. Sealed.
The morning after, you each get the same five taps — did you want it to go longer, would you go again. Neither of you sees a thing until you’ve both answered. Then you both see both. No score.
Set it up →TEACH YOUR PROXY
Did it get this right? One tap — it remembers for next time.
What they said
WELL.
That link doesn’t
point anywhere.
Someone typed it wrong, or it was never real. Ask for it again — or make your own and send it to them.